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Originally Posted by 8thcivic
Being a jealous guy, i over think really easily.. It all began almost a year ago, i was picking up my GF from university and usually we would hold hands while im driving, but this one day she would always let go of my hand and use two hands to text. Its not that common for her to recieve texts constantly or for her to text constantly. Didnt really bother me much, just shruged it off. We decided to eat at red robins on broadway and oak. while ordering, waiting for food, she still couldnt keep her hands off her phone. so i finally asked her, who is she texting? she then told me it was someone she met today Being herself, when she saids "someone" it usually means a guy. So i was pretty pissed that she rather spend her time texting this guy and not spending time with me when i sacarficed my time to pick her up... We had a huge arguement and eventually we solved it.
Next week or so, she would do this again on the way back from university, but this time not as constant. She was hungry so we got take out from and i asked her if anyone asked for her number today as a joke.. She then said yes and gave him her number so that lead to another arguement..
fast forward
last week she woke up late and rushed to work. She texts me saying shes hungry and im like make something small to drink or eat at work. I dont know why, she then flipped and said she'll text me later...i was only trying to help.. anyways today we were just talking about random stuff and that it seems like she treats her friends better than she treats me (including the first guy she gave her number to at university). shes denies it so we went over her texts with that guy from university and on that same day she got pissed at me cause she woke up late, she was having a friendly chat with him about sending "steak" to her thru the phone and how it was bland because he forgot to season......
that got me really worried and overly jealous and for some reason i just got concerned since school was starting for her again. I tried to ask her not to give out her number so easily, but it seems like it was really hard for her to not. we eventually came to an agreement that if its only school related since in university, u need to depend on other people to pass the course?? Being the jealous guy i am, i went further into details and brought up the first guy she gave her number to. i remember one of the texts on the first day was like asking where she lives and what shes eating for dinner.. so i asked her if that was "school related".. eventually she admit she was looking for friendship too.. then her excuse about not spending time with me during that drive to red robins & while waiting for the food was because texting a "new" person is really fun.. So i asked her if im boring and shes like " no,u are fun, but just texting a new person is more fun"...how fun could it be unless theyre flirting?.. right now im scared and jealous that shes going to make more "guy" friends and treat them better than she treats her own bf and possibly lead to more than jsut friends.. And she has hid stuff from me before, but never cheated on me or flirted with another guy. Should i be concerned and worried or not??
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1) do you guys have sex on a regular basis? sex plays an important part to maintain a relationship. doesn't have to be intercourse. i don't want to go into too much details.
2) jealousy makes you weak, and also leaves you broke (quote puff daddy). try to learn to be more confident. just remember, at the end of the day, she's your bitch.
3) apparently, she doesn't consider you and her in a relationship, but rather you two are seeing each other. try not to make things so clear like agree on this and that. this is the commitment stage of a relationship. since you guys evidently isn't in a relationship (well to her at least), go out and make your own female friends.
it was 2 years ago since i was in a relationship so what do i know right? it's these stupid little games that makes me don't want a girlfriend. either the girl settles down with you or keep looking for that one who will. life is too short to deal with these dramatic stuff, go be happy somewhere else with someone else.