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Originally Posted by 8thcivic
sorry about what uve experienced. My gf still denies that it was flirting, cause shes saying thats the way she talks to her friends even her girl friends. And i do know that its true so maybe that "steak" talk wasnt flirting? maybe just a normal joke? even tho it does seem like a flirt, she claims that it was not her intention. however i still find it unfair how she was able to "joke" around with him and at the same time, flipping out on me when i didnt do anything wrong. If i tell her to stop talking like that to guys, she would just say its unfair how shes able to be herself around girls but not guys.
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It is unfair.
She's your girlfriend, not your child.
How would you feel if she began controlling such a fundamental aspect of your life? Pretty pissed off I bet.
Both myself and all my former girlfriends have always had friendships independent of our relationship with members of the opposite sex, none of the relationships have come to an end because of those friendships. Two adults of opposing sexes can hang out and have conversations without sex becoming an inevitable possibility.
Jealousy is a useless emotion that breeds nothing but paranoia and resentment; it does not save relationships by preventing a partner from cheating, but it's definitely a catalyst to creating the desire to cheat where it might not have otherwise existed.