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Originally Posted by 8thcivic
ty all for the advice and letting me know what you guys would do if u were in my situation. to answer some questions above, im 20, and this is my second serious relationship and i would be her first. We came to an agreement that im going to have to trust her. I do trust her most of the time, but she just has no experience on relationships. She doesnt know where the boarder line is. I told her i understand if shes giving it out to guys for school related stuff, but please just stay on topic and not talk about "what are you eating?, where do you live?" or saying good night to them.. (all these examples are actually what she said to this first guy she gave her number to) and to treat me equally to her friends, if not better. I remember 6 months ago, she was selling her book to that guy and they were planning to meet up near JO. i decided to give her a ride to save her a hassle of bussing and without asking me, she told the guy that they'll meet at joyce skytrain station instead, so its closer to his house... I dont know just putting all these puzzle pieces together makes sense that she may be interested in him, however she told me million times that hes not her type... She said if she would ever to like another guy, she would break up with me instead of cheating. It doesnt matter how many times i told her that its flirting, she would deny it and say thats how she talks to all her friends.. She showed me some convos with her really close friends and him and i could tell that its a different style. After i pointed it out, she said she'll more careful on what shes going to say or who she gives out her number to.
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exactly what yaminashi said.
like i said bro. she knows what to say to string you along. its what you wanna hear. you want her to be more careful, you want her to stop. and thats exactly what she tells you.
i wanna help you out because i feel for you, but our advice will only go so far if you dont accept it. but we obviously wont force you since its your life and all.
sooner or later you'll see.. hopefully it won't be too late for you emotionally by then
good luck