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Originally Posted by 8thcivic
ty all for the advice and letting me know what you guys would do if u were in my situation. to answer some questions above, im 20, and this is my second serious relationship and i would be her first.
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It's her first real relationship, she'll have some lessons to learn.
From what it sounds like, she doesn't sound like she's putting out in this relationship as much as you are, and now texting/flirting with other guys that she just willingly gives her number to to whomever requests it. Like Nabatron says, she has you by the cojones and she'll still have you tend to her every request because she knows you will do anything, while she's most likely finding another guy.
If she's at all serious about this relationship with you, she knows that it's wrong to do shit like that with or without you around; but you also need to stop being so insecure and overprotective. If she's as genuine as you are, she should know her boundaries and would know if it's gone too far. My girlfriend's in a sorority and she goes to frat parties with her sisters and friends, but I need not be worried because we both already established a solid level of trust in each other without texting each other every minute of the day.
Long story short, and pretty much along the lines of the others here, it sounds like she's keeping her options open while not worrying too much about you because she already has you. Before she starts two-timing (and it sounds like she's halfway there), get rid of her and save yourself the torment that comes later when you find out the truth. Lots of better people out there man; best of luck to you