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Originally Posted by gumnny
dont even mention about sex . i am already disappointed to the point , back then when we first met , sex is always good and excited , now ? she has less to no interest . it's like i am begging for sex every time and gets turn down , its harsh and hurt , i talked to her about it and she said 'what ... we like each other doesnt mean we need to have sex every day .. " , i am so disappointed and tired of her rejects , i feel useless and helpless , i dont know what to say and deeply just because i still love her so much and wish she would change one day
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Oneitis paralyzes rational thinking in a merciful way. Forget however many year you and your girlfriend spent together, forget the specifics of your relationship, forget all of her best friends who are feeding you abused morality, and forget that shit hole you call a relationship.
You are a man, she is a woman. Why do women have sex with men? To reproduce kids with their genes. Why do women continuously have sex with men? To preserve a nourishing dynamic. Women use sex to get relationships, men use relationships to get sex. If she’s not giving you sex, you shouldn’t give her a relationship. If your girlfriend isn't having as much sex as she should be, it means she subconsciously thinks she can keep you in the relationship without putting out. Seriously, it's that simple.
If you entertain a women’s pleas to withhold sex, this is what happens:
A. She subconsciously assumes that she can do better than you
B. You are displaying lower value than her – destroying your ability to reinforce dominance & attraction
C. YOU subconsciously begin to think that sex is a REWARD for “good behavior” and start acting like a beggar
D. A whole host of bad shit
To solve this:
A. Be wanted by other women. The ultimate remedy to all relationship problems. When a girl is reminded that she is in a competitive sexual market where there is a risk she might lose her boyfriend to another girl, she immediately jumps into hyper-qualifying mode to keep her “good catch”
B. Read (A) one more time
C. Be less available and less needy.
D. Worst case scenario, break-up, fuck other women, and then get back together
E. Be ABLE to fuck other women. Don’t cheat, but don’t fortify yourself in ethical armor. Men with options have a certain aura about them. Remember, the ideal man is one who CAN fuck other women, but WILLINGLY CHOOSES NOT TO.