[Mr.HappySilp]

Originally Posted by jameswift

Thanks for your comments.

I had changed everything from my #'s to my passwords. The problem was I left the window open at my home. They came in, managed to get into the computer and get some information. They also took my car.

When I came home from holidays, my car was gone.

I was going to call the cops and pretty much ruin this person's life. They would have been charged and convicted of auto theft. Not sure if the fact that car is worth a lot of money makes it more serious but either way, it would have finished their life.

I decided I did not want to do this. I did not want to make a huge mess of things and do this. We all make mistakes and when our emotions are running high, we do silly things.

The current gf is fully aware of this as she was the one that said "where is the hell is your car?" I had to sit down and explain the situation.

As for me making mistakes in my previous relationship, I made plenty. I do not make myself out to be an angel. I did a lot of destructive things, lied about a lot of things, and overall just caused a lot of problems.

I learned from it. Moved on and that's that.

There was no overlap between this girl and the last. There was plenty of time. Sometimes people just get pissed off when they see someone move on before they do. I tend to take things VERY hard, go into a mode where I want to kill myself. When I come out of the woods, I'm fine.

Despite all this, I don't really think my ex is a bad person. Our relationship was damaging to both of us and it's for the better we have gone our separate ways.

I have a lot of evidence if I wanted to bury her but I don't. What for? What do I gain out of getting all worked up. I just want to be happy and want the same for her. If I let my emotions run wild it's easy for any of us to act "crazy" or "nuts". Lets face it, emotions are crazy things.

I think you are pretty crazy. If anyone breaks into my house and steals my car (even just something small) I would have call the cops right away.

There are a fine line between being nice and doing what's best to protect yourself and those you love.