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z3german · 09-20-2012, 01:40 PM

I do the exact same thing, and im in a 4+ year relationship with someone who i consider a very serious candidate for putting a ring on.

I just made a thread "Male Minds" yesterday which concerns exactly what I was feeling. You are lucky that you are single that you can actually take action rather than just lay around all day trying to figure out what the fuck does your current relationship mean to you.

Before yesterday I was thinking about this girl all last week, everyday I thought of her, in the morning I think, in class I see her through the corner of my eye, after school (now even) I think about her. Its exhausting, and distracting, yet the difference for me is that I am in a good relationship and you have none.

So my advice, next girl you feel like that dont wait around like a pussy trying to make things work by talking to her constantly etc etc. Fucking take charge, grow some balls, dont talk to her so much so that on the third or so meet ask her out on a date, use those dates to get to know her rather than just getting to know her just as any other friend would. Get rejected? Fuck it! You must be a fairly good looking guy because you said you actually do talk to these girls for at least a week before the conversation dies down, it dies down because shes bored, you have to crawl into those uncomfortable positions so that she can open up more to you.

Once you make one the girls yours, im sure you will forget about other girls for at least a few months. For me it was 2ish years before i felt the lust feeling for other girls, yet im still with her 4+ years later and im feeling the same feelings again. That honey moon stage of the relationship is such a great time, I envy you that you can make it happen right now if you wanted to.

09-20-2012, 01:40 PM	#6
z3german Where's my RS Christmas Lobster?! Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Richmond Posts: 1,116 Thanked 903 Times in 285 Posts Failed 182 Times in 32 Posts	I do the exact same thing, and im in a 4+ year relationship with someone who i consider a very serious candidate for putting a ring on. I just made a thread "Male Minds" yesterday which concerns exactly what I was feeling. You are lucky that you are single that you can actually take action rather than just lay around all day trying to figure out what the fuck does your current relationship mean to you. Before yesterday I was thinking about this girl all last week, everyday I thought of her, in the morning I think, in class I see her through the corner of my eye, after school (now even) I think about her. Its exhausting, and distracting, yet the difference for me is that I am in a good relationship and you have none. So my advice, next girl you feel like that dont wait around like a pussy trying to make things work by talking to her constantly etc etc. Fucking take charge, grow some balls, dont talk to her so much so that on the third or so meet ask her out on a date, use those dates to get to know her rather than just getting to know her just as any other friend would. Get rejected? Fuck it! You must be a fairly good looking guy because you said you actually do talk to these girls for at least a week before the conversation dies down, it dies down because shes bored, you have to crawl into those uncomfortable positions so that she can open up more to you. Once you make one the girls yours, im sure you will forget about other girls for at least a few months. For me it was 2ish years before i felt the lust feeling for other girls, yet im still with her 4+ years later and im feeling the same feelings again. That honey moon stage of the relationship is such a great time, I envy you that you can make it happen right now if you wanted to.