[El Bastardo]

The following is a reply from the anonymous original poster

Dinosaur: I get what you're saying, as lust for love. But I think it's a very SMALL form of lust, eg. I don't think sexually about it, it's just those romantic thoughts.. I honestly don't know what I want, I guess, maybe that's why every girl seems perfect to me. And it's not that she does something wrong that I move on, it's just I meet another person and she's "better" than the last one..

guddagudd: It's hard man, especially out here in first year uni.. Making friends is hard enough as it is, let alone meeting women..


Mr. HappySilp: I don't fap dude, and no I haven't dated anyone. I'm too scared to ask girls out on a date, because in the past it always ended with disappointments (rejection), and me being hurt. I'm really scared of getting hurt like I did before...

z3german: Oh I just read your thread, seems you're bored of your gf? You should reconnect with her somehow, cause that isn't healthy right? Or spend time away from her so you miss her? Idk, I'm obviously horrible at this stuff haha.. Wait, wait so what do you mean by "don't talk to her as much"?, I don't talk to her that much tbh.. Cause she's just interested in "meeting new ppl", and I guess I'm just another one of those many people she's befriended. And yeah the date thing really scares me, I have been disappointed way too much as I've stated before and I fear getting hurt again. Haha nah man, I just talked to her for an hour or two constantly but then it started to get really stale, and silent.. Wish I left earlier though to avoid it. This was yesterday, when I met her, didn't talk to her after that. What's the frequency with which I talk to girls, how often/how less? As you said "Not as much"? Lol, I can?! I'm not good with girls as you can see, or else I would be dating by now. But seriously bro, I hope shit works out for you, it always does in the end.