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I feel like you want to experience sex with love not just the physical aspect of it. It is totally different. Sometimes you need the physical and it can be satisfying enough but sex with feelings is always so much more.

could be maybe you're into some crazy shit too? like you want to explore things? and i'm not talking about sex in public places, maybe like getting roughed up or mental foreplay?
i know a guy who cant get off on bjs alone, he needs the chick to get in his mental space and almost abuse him to an extent like make him feel like shit.
i also know a guy who smokes a lot of cigs/mj and his sex drive is super low. i mean like once every couple weeks is good for him low and barely any fapping at all.

when did you start having sex? recently? it takes a while to come into your own and really know what gets you off. sometimes the process can be uncomfortable either with yourself or your partner. there has to be a great deal of trust there when you're pushing each others boundaries you know.

PS: 50 Shades of Grey is for ROOKIES!