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this is definitely a tough situation. even though your parents have been divorced for a while now, it will have some sort of an impact on your decisions as your grow older..and questions arise as to how the hell did you get involved.
personally, ive been through something almost similar... i found that my mom always needed help..and if she couldnt afford to buy something on her own she'd drag me into the situation.
i would say to side with your dad...help him out..maybe he feels alone and wants you in his life.
if your mom can't afford a place..she really shouldn't even be buying a place.
however, this does depend on how your relationship is with both sides.
regardless of what you decide.. you just gotta remember that what happened between your parents..is between them. you and ur brother unfortunately had to witness this whole issue in person...but had nothing to do with the divorce.
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