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here are a few things that you should ask BEFORE you get married.
1) DO you have a check list for house work?
When you work, you have a list of shit you have to do.
when you are a student, you have a list of shit you have ot study for
same for relationsihp.
when i am dating, i literally say to my gf, this is what I do, this is my division of labour, what the fuck are you going to do. You can't expect me to do everything, and it goes both ways. I have a list down pat that we both share. If you gf think you're stupid, please kick her the fuck out.
2) i have an apartment, you want to get married, fine. you move in, you pay half of hte down payment and you pay 1/2 mortgage. we are 1/2, you pay for your 1/2. or you write a pre-nup.
you ain't living rent free nor do i expect me to if i moved in.
If you can't simply work these two common finances issues, don't get married.
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