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You are right, not really a check list, but you should be comfortable to really set the a few rules on what you need to do. I know a couple who does ALL the mofo cleaning at the house and she ain't happy; get these things out of the way and lay down some ground rules on division of labour (this goes to boys and girls).
I have seen a lot of older couples who the girl or the guy reimburse the down payment; one side moves in together and he/she pays them back + mortgage. to be honest, i have yet to meet a couple who got married and say "why don't you sell your place and we can both buy some place new" i rarely see this but I do believe it could be normal.
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