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you HAVE to be happy as a person as a whole before you can date someone and be happy.
If you can't stand being alone, you'll start to fill your void shopping thinking that'll make you "happy" for a second. Girls and guys have to realize they can't rely on relationships to make them happy or whole. You'll be constantly leaning against someone and that's the end of things. My gf is in that funk right now, and I"m not sure if things are working so well.
Have you ever noticed in poorer countries, they have close to nothing, but they are happiest with friends, family and environment? No matter where you put them, they appreciate everything they have and they are content. You go to a 'richer' country, people are nailed down to their possessions and bam, somehow they still get lonely and they aren't fulfilled. they just one void with another. They don't appreciate things until it's taken from them.
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