|
yea but not like that. I told her exactly where i was concerned about and that being with her those problems are not problems because as much as i try to let her figure it out, just before shit hits the fan i always save her or put sense to the situation for her to figure it out. I told her that we both can grow faster without each other which i hope is true, i know i will grow, but if she really dropped the ball on some of the things i help her with her life could be over (mostly debt is what im worried for her about)
Just so you guys know, i have never helped her financially by giving her money. I gave friendly reminders, and maybe twice her debt was something she couldnt handle so i charted everything for her and made a plan in which she gets out of debt. Most recently 2 weeks ago which now she is free from a $800 dollar visa debt on her $300 dollar a month pay check
|