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Online dating, particularly on free sites such as PoF is biased towards guys who are physically attractive or are good at building an online personality. I dabbled in online dating for several years and despite having a well-written profile and thoughtful messages to women I was interested in, it was a slog. Considering the OP seems to lack a natural charisma that would be reflected online, I am inclined to think that online dating would be rather discouraging and defeating. E-Harmony might work better since the people on there are probably more serious, but I think the OP needs to work on his social skills and needs to really become comfortable in his own skin before he tries to find someone to settle down with.
A gold mine for single and fun women is dance clubs, particularly salsa and other latin dancing. It's impolite for women to turn down men for dances, so women are forced to talk to you. Moreoever, dancing is one of the last activities where men are expected to lead and assert themselves.
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