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Originally Posted by mr_chin
It pisses me off especially with girls. With my guy friends, I don't care one bit because we see each other quite often and can talk about anything anytime.
I was talking to this chick and we were telling each other about our day. After I read hers, I told her about mine... no more reply then. WTF?
Days later, she messages me, and we had a long conversation. After I made a sarcastic joke about how she is lucky to have me to teach her on some stuff, no more replies.
I mean, we're not just hi and bye friends. We've known each other for quite some time and know quite a bit about each other. Although I don't see any future relationship between us, it's kinda rude how she just cuts off without explaining the next day what happen. It just makes it so awkward the next time I see her again.
I mean, if you don't have a minute or two to commit to a reply, don't check your phone. That's what people tend to do, they check their phone to avoid real life awkward situations, then the message is read, they don't reply, and they message is forgotten.
I never check my phone and not reply to a message unless I know conversation will lead no where and that I only talk to that person once a year or something.
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^This. I understand some situations in not replying is fine. Like they forget or whatever, happens to me as well. So I don't take it too much to heart as there's no point in causing a problem over what could be a misunderstanding (usually is). But when ppl are disrespectful like mr. Chin said it pisses me off so I don't text them again. Ex. Met a girl from class, she gives me her # so I text her.. Wasn't a useless txt either it was an actual question but she never replied, tried again a few days later too see how she was doing cause she was sick but still no reply (you can tell if the msg is read or not). But when I see her in class she talks normally? Idek this is why ive stopped texting all together now cause I hate these situations no point in lowering yourself in front of someone If they don't see you as worth their time.
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