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Originally Posted by rzrshrp
Yeah thanks for understanding man. I honestly have never thought about that, cause I did sorta "change" a bit as I've stated. Yeah I don't know about hanging out one on one dude, every time I ask her to hang out she doesn't really acknowledge it you know? For example I'd say, "Hey we should go do _______ again, it was so fun last time we did it!" and all she would say is "Yeah", like I don't want to make myself look worse by overextending to her, adding to that, we used to hang out before after every lab and we had a lot of fun, convos were so natural and flowing, but now it's just all missing. And she sorta prefers to hang out with the other guy in our friend circle now. But yeah, I mean even if we did somehow go one on one, it would sorta be weird talking about this with her directly (from her POV I suppose) as we just met this September and had labs together every 2 weeks (6 labs in total), and what exactly is the awkward silence for? I don't understand, is it so she reflects? Damn, why do people have to come into your life, only to leave.. I hate it.
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Originally Posted by E.D.C.5
Just have a one on one conversation with her and tell her how you feel. You won't be having any classes with her next semester anyways...Whats the worse that could happen?
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That's exactly what I was saying.
It's better to try knowing you failed and not trying and never know the result.
I think that extended your friendship to a group thing was the biggest mistake ever. Because when a girl hangs out with a guy one on one, it means they're somewhat interested in you, but you never made the move.
If it was coming from the other way around, from group to a one and one, then there is a possibility that it's just simply be a friends thing.
It doesn't matter now I guess, and since she likes hanging out with the other guy. Just move on. Don't totally ignore her or avoid her. Just say hi and bye once in a while whenever you see her.
It's a stage that we all go through in life. I am sure everyone has someone they used to be very close with, suddenly became distant because of personality, lifestyle, and future goals changes.
Just look back and think of it as a lesson in life. What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger. Let it teach you that you should appreciate more in life.