[JKam]

To be clear this is a friendship. You don't need to see each other everyday, every week or even every month. She's not exclusively your friend nor are you exclusively her friend. If you believe you guys are exclusive then you clearly want to be "with" her but are friendzoned.

I also have a friend I met at school who is a pretty good friend. Now that school is over we don't talk or see each other very often but when we do hang out, it's just like old times. Drifting apart happens, its just what people do in different stages of their life.

If she never wants to talk or hang out, you were never really good friends to begin with.


Another theory is that maybe she did want to be with you (romantically) but you never communicated to her that you only want to be friends. Maybe she thought you were pursuing her but didn't have the balls to make a move so she cut you off and moved on to the next guy.


*edit*
I guess I didn't give you any advice.. What you can do now is just let it be. If you see her, do what you normally do. Don't actively pursue her to do activities (eat, hang out, etc). If she comes to you then sure, go out and have fun. If not, don't hold a grudge, maybe she has more priorities than your friendship right now. Maybe this guy she's talking to is someone she wants a relationship with and doesn't want him to be jealous.