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stick with your current group of friends, they're the best you'll ever have. i graduated almost 10 years ago and from all the people ive hung out with over the years, the ones that always have stuck around are the ones ive had since highschool.
dont just jump into an exciting lifestyle...take baby steps...your friends wanna stay home and play video games and watch movies on the weekend, sure thats cool...my saturday night was spent watching ufc and then playing monopoly from 10-3am with 2 friends and my gf...each person throws in 20$, winner takes all...but what im trying to say is dont just jump from never going out to party animal. start off easy, go to a local pub, go on a wings night, get a few pounds of wings, have a beer or two...scope out some girls, talk with your friends and get comfortable then repeat it the next week, once your all comfortable being in a busy public surrounding with lots of women/muisc...move on to a bigger bar...when your good there...move to a bar/club like "the lamplighter" or something...from there work up to a club up on granville st.
be expecting to spend money, so make sure you've got a source of income. like others said, dont buy women drinks, i dont know how many women have come up to me to say hi, we talk for 30 seconds, then she goes on to say how thirsty she is and how i should get another drink, ill go to the bar with her and order a drink for myself...when she starts asking why i didnt get her one...ill simply ask her if she plans on sucking my dick later tonight...odds are its a no, so what was her purpose to come talk to me? to tell me how good looking i am? fuck that, if your going to buy a girl a drink...make sure you've at least had a good 10-20 minute talk with her first...at least make it worth it or make her work for it.
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