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Originally Posted by Alpha v2
How about be treat him nicely and see how he responds
If you receive anger and turn to hate on a person you'll just make yourself mad for no reason
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ps - this was a random craigslist roomate that she found
and believe me, shes tried for the past 5 months to be nice and give him the benefit of the doubt...
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A. why was he not kicked out if unemployed for too long and always borrowing money
B. Why did he move in if he cant be trusted
C. why was he not kicked out for being a slob and ruining the house and personal possessions.
Should have been told to leave after the issues started to appear,NOT after everything has gotten to the point of being evicted. I dont believe there is any thing she can really do other then take a lose on it.. maybe someone else knows of something she can do....
Best of luck
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he had a job for the first 2-3 weeks when he moved in
she had only met him for a screening prior to moving in, and im assuming he bullshitted his brains out
she told the landlords constantly, and even they tried to give him the benefit of the doubt...but now its come to this...
i was at her place last weekend, the landlords come in, take one smell, and look around in disgust saying the entire place smells like a fucking litter box..
shes an extremely clean person, and when she has to clean up after someone and basically be a mother to someone whos older than her...it gets annoying...and she has told him to clean up from the start, she has all the texts etc to prove it...she would text him to please clean his dishes, hed reply saying "sure ill do it after lunch", she'd come home at 9pm...now theres even more dishes...ive seen the way he acts and lives, its flat out disgusting...its not like he started to live like this all at once, when he moved in, he was clean...then i guess he lost his job...then he started to not clean, leave dirty dishes for up to 5 days on the kitchen counter...would walk around on the carpets with his shoes on leaving mud stains...now theres cat piss stains on everything, the walls, the carpets, furniture, cat are clawing the sides of the reclining chairs...
shes on the verge of having a mental breakdown and beating the shit out of him hahaha