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Originally Posted by Jason00S2000
Difference is, a woman in her 20s has plenty of men who would support her and not let her be in danger of being homeless
A 30s man's value to society plummets, FAST, and once a man is broke and in his 40s, his value is near 0
Come down to the poor DTES hood, most of the people people are older men, forgotten and useless to society
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If you or anyone else here is concerned about this gentlemen, well then kudos to you guys. Noble sentiments for sure. But why don't you instead go and give him a place to stay or perhaps pay his debts for him?
OP's gf is not faultless here...it's absurd to put yourself in a position where you decide to live with a person you meet on Craigslist. We think twice before even buying or selling a phone to someone online, and she's gone out and lived with someone from CL. Granted, everyone's situation may be different and she might have had no choice. But I find it hard to believe that she couldn't find a 1 bedroom apartment for the cost of her share of the rent.
That being said, should we feel sympathetic for OP's gf? I think not...And on the same note, sympathetic for the guy who's screwing over OP's gf? Certainly not. You can't justify making someone else pay for your misfortunes. If his income wasn't steady and he wasn't going to behave responsibly (with your pets, property, etc.) then he shouldn't have gone into an agreement with someone else.
OP - you've asked what kind recourse you can take in this situation but have failed to mention what kind of agreement your gf got into when she moved to this place. I don't see how you can get any sound advice without divulging that information.