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Originally Posted by vafanculo
You're looking at this like someone who is searching for a gf.
The kind of friends you want are the ones you grew up with since kindegarden, went to the same elementary school, and kept in touch with in highschool.
You can still meet 'friends', but its hard to make that bond.
Focus on saving those friends, than looking for replacements.
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bingo, hence the old saying "make new friends, keep the old, some are silver and the others are gold"
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Originally Posted by tru..azn
i have tried to connect with my older back then "close" friends but since they all have fulltime jobs, GFs, and their other friends, its hard for me to maintain the friendship with them because everytime I call them, they always say they are busy etc
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so you call them and they're busy...thats what text tag is for! just keep texting them and having text convo's. during weekdays when everyones at work, me and a few friends from highschool have a group imessage chat...about 6 of us in it. even if i dont reply for a few days, i still read and stay in the loop as to whats going on and if they're going out. we dont see each other every day, sometimes not for a week or two..but we still talk.
but if your looking for new friends, ummmm, try plentyoffish.com? meet guys/girls...im sure theres a thousand others in the same situation as you in this city.
the job you have now, is it a lifetime job? or just one for the moment? if possible try to find a new job with better hours so you can get your life back?