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Old 11-27-2012, 06:24 AM   #14
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Originally Posted by vafanculo View Post
You're looking at this like someone who is searching for a gf.

The kind of friends you want are the ones you grew up with since kindegarden, went to the same elementary school, and kept in touch with in highschool.

You can still meet 'friends', but its hard to make that bond.

Focus on saving those friends, than looking for replacements.
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That's not really true. I moved out of province when I was 19. Never went back. Am I just destined to be friendless?

There are just some people that don't have a large group of friends, that hang out in volume together. The Op is is a bit introverted, meaning he's not going to be the glue that holds a group together. Not an insult, its a fact.

High school and elementary school are A source for friendships, but its not THE source. You work with people and find connections, and people that think like you and you end up going out after work.

I think your problem is, you need to spread your wings a little bit and let your family out on their own.
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