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extremely important!
me and my gf had to have a discussion about this last weekend...slowly over time we were having less and less sex.
i'd try when we sleep together and she'd push my hands away...tried at night..in the morning...when she got out of the shower...and then when its her time of the month it seemed as if there was no point in even attempting..
so last saturday morning she tried to initiate sex with me and i pulled her line on her "im not in the mood". an hour later we were driving and i flat out asked her about it cause its been bugging me, everytime i try, shes not in the mood...she didnt even realize that we were only having sex once or twice a month...told her about it all..ever since then we've been having great sex almost every day, which i dont expect, but shes starting to initiate a loooot more now.
so if your gf doesnt want to have sex...let her go man. your 19...you should just go on a bang spree for the next year or two, just get all the partying and etc out of your system, then look to settle down. (well, thats my opinion on it at least)
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