^ and just to add a little bit to this, but you gotta warm her up. Yes, I know some of you dudes know this, but as the frequency of sex drops there is also a drop in "wooo'ing" her. You guys can deny it, but its true. Let's face it, you guys don't have to 'work' or impress us anymore when you are in a committed relationship.
Don't understand this a me blaming the dude for the decline in sex, there is obviously slacking on both sides, but to peak her interest there needs to be a pre-game...whether that pre-game is foreplay, compliments, flowers, making her dinner, cuddling on the couch and watching a movie, putting away the laundry, etc it all makes her thinks, "aww, my SO is great...I love him so much", etc.
I know you dudes are rolling your eyes now, but what I said above is true
