RIP. i know what its like to lose friends that have so much ahead of them, as one got taken away from my life last year on my bday.
I get where phil's coming from, and ya this isnt the place to say it but i do agree with him that i have more sympathy for the affected then those who brought it upon themselves. We all make poor choices, and now i get to witness my friends get torn apart because of a choice their friends did.
Here for you KT, JMC, etc etc.