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I just want to start off by saying that all the replies you're getting here in this thread are just coming from eclitic personal experiences of an internet forum. The worst thing you could do is take someone's advice that isn't true to yourself. Noir's method of "selling" your self, the numerous replies about keeping those earlier life friends and cherishing them, the RS meets, the casual drinkers etc. etc. You could do them all and still have few friends... What I'm going to say is just an addition to all of that.
You' might just be missing some basics:
1. Talk to people. You work from 12 to whatever? Talk to your work neighbors (being bored at work is the strongest way to bring people together, not love) and just be more social. You can be an introvert and be social, not all conversations have to be personal if you don't want them to be. And also, don't just look for asian friends if that's what you're thinking... I'm not asian and I'm tired of seeing this. Just wanted to mention that in case it's what's causing your problem. Race should have nothing to do with it, and all too often it does.
2. Go to the places where people share the same interests as you. Like cars? RS meets. Like adventures? Events and adventures (fucking hate those radio ads, I'm a chump for advertising them now). Like [blank], google [blank] and find classes/groups/etc.
3.uhhh, ok maybe I shouldn't have chose list format 'cause I only had two things...How about...be yourself and all that bullshit.
Alright then, ADD kicked in, later!
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