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Originally Posted by tru..azn
I have been to RS meets and people I meet there are only a once thing in which they never really call me out to chill etc after and the thing is people you don't really know who not want to waste their time chilling with their "new" friend (they don't have any incentive to do that since they have their own friends etc) which makes befriending someone really difficult these days....
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i been to meetup.com and i have the same experience as you. many ppl these days wont care to befriend you unless you hae something to offer(be it hes good with the ladies, hes in the investment business, he starting a business......) meaning they want to learn off you or you got something they want or need.
i met many ppl from meetup and 90 percent are just casual aquaintances you see and talk to when your at the meetup. we dont hang outside.
i even took incentive to ask them to hang out and.....etc this is making guy friends too and not just girls. guys as just as picky to who they hang out with and associate with
i have a guy friends whos disability i believe is autism and another mental illness they unemployed and guess what they got no friends. why ? they got nothing to offer.they always in dwtn library so i see them when i finish my work
oh ya i just work 40 hr/wk too.
most ppl in your life are just going be an acquaitances and you only going have a few friends.