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I'm gonna take a stab at this, and its going to be kind of a general statement, as I don't truly get where you are going, tbh.
1. You assume that people don't change. Over the course of time, you gain new perspectives that make you a better person. It's part of the human condition, if you let it.
2. You assume that when people say, "don't change for people", that they mean everything. They don't. If you are an asshole, the general consensus is, "you can go ahead and stop being an asshole." Really, what people mean is that if you are really into listening to jazz, then don't pretend to like the opera to keep fucking a girl. I've got my finger on the pulse of society, and trust me, that fight happens far more than we'd care to admit.
3. The group of people, men or women, that put in their list of things to look for in a potential mate, "must be needy as fuck" is going to be a very small group. So unless you intend to seek out and date Rihanna, then you might need to cool it a bit on the 300 texts per day.
4. More of a follow up to 3 than anything, even if you do find someone that finds neediness as attractive, they are eventually going to be tired of having you crawl up their ass daily and leave you.
That's just an opinion...your mileage may vary.
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