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i never thought id be so concerned over something like this.. but here it goes
Met a girl through my friends about a month ago at a bar. The night i met her we talked a lot, she ended up being all over me and i ended up taking her to my house. Not being the one night stand guy myself, next morning i drove her back home and decided to keep in touch with her.
following 2 weeks, i took her out for dinners, went to the movies, and hung out quite frequently, handful of text messages every day. It was clear that she liked me, sending me messages every night saying she misses me, calling me often even at work on her break etc. and every time I'd drop her off at home she would give me a kiss.
As time went by, i slowly started to see something in her too, not just a random girl that i hooked up with one night. Couple days later, i met her and asked if she wanted to start a relationship. She pauses for a long time smiles and says she will think about it.
I thought that was really weird since i thought the answer was going to be an obvious yes. But everyone needs their space and i decided to respect that and told her not to worry about it too much and let me know whenever she decides
We continued to stay in touch and do our things like any other day like nothing happened.
About a week ago, i slowly noticed she was getting slower at texting, often ignoring few of my texts, and stopped sending me messages like how she misses me, stopped calling, and reduced all of those lovey dovey stuff. I'd ask her if she ate yet and we would get something to eat, but now she just says shes busy at work and that she has to go home after. Basically, she seems to be a little tired of our repetitive activities.. although i may sound like i took her out EVERY DAY, no i didn't, i thoroughly controlled myself
I'm just in the wtf situation since her behavior changed all of the sudden. Its not like something went viral between us.. I thought maybe shes acting like this ever since i asked her to start a relationship? but no that doesn't make sense since we continued to hangout and do our things like nothing happened
Would you say shes just messing with my brain? after all the time i spent with her, its hard to let her go... should i sit her down somewhere and have a talk with her? or am i just over reacting lol..
I'm safe to say at this point now, that i really like her but its just making me uncomfortable by the way she is behaving all the sudden
i was thinking of just stop texting or contacting her for a full day or two and maybe she will call me back lol