[El Bastardo]

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alright.. so things have gotten pretty interesting between the last 2 days.

Due to her all the sudden lack of interest in me, i decided make a tough decision to get over her and stop any means to contact her.

2 days without contacting her, new years eve, drinking out with my friends, just as i thought i was going to get over her.. i get a text from her out of the blue asking if i can meet her somewhere and talk. However, being new years eve and all, i was already out and plastered, and wasn't able to drive any where.

i straight up told her that i couldn't meet her at this time, but we can meet the day after or if its urgent she can just call me or text right now.

than she sends me this long text..
"i think we both have something to say to each other about that night when you asked me to start dating. I thought about it for a long time whether i should. however, with my school starting on 2nd and with my full time work, i really don't see the relationship going any further down the road, i will barely have enough time to feed myself. i am really sorry. Lets forget what happened the first night we met, but stay as really close friends at this point, and keep in close contact and still hang out"

She's taking 4 classes in school and is working full time, so her excuses did seem quite legitimate.. but who knows... why the hell would you lead me all the way to ask you out in the first place if this was going to be the case right?

Now my main point..
From my past experiences, these "remain friends" relationships never go well especially when both of our relationship has progressed through this far. I'm just hesitant that the more i keep in contact with her, the more i will have troubles getting over her. But than again, i don't want to be a complete douche bag and ignore her.

I'm strongly leaning towards the option of just remaining civil with her, reduce the amount of keeping in touch with her and let her slowly fade away. What's the point of keeping in close contact with her knowing that i wont be able to get her? Hell, not even fwb since that will just make it even harder for me to get over her.

basically,
i boned her --> hung out like bf and gf --> and got friend zoned in the end lol

that's all i have to share with you guys. i think i know what i am going to do

Edit:

oh, forgot to add this my post

i did ask her what was up with the slow texting and lack of calls recently, i asked her if there was anything wrong?

she just said she was really busy with work these days and haven't had time to even contact her close friends even. yeah... doesn't sound like much of a legitimate reason.. I'm a busy guy myself, but its never been SO bad that its gone to that extend.

I don't really know at this point, she just sounded even more fishy and awkward