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Originally Posted by RiceIntegraRS
Cant believe no one said this but how about get her buzzed or drunk and make your move........
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well I figure if OP wants a meaningful relationship, making a move may be well...wrong.
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Originally Posted by Gridlock
You guys talk about the "friend zone" like its a border that you cross without a sign by the side of the road.
"Oh fuck! did I cross it? Am I there? Oh shit. I asked how her day was and was sympathetic to her feelings, when I should have been puffing my chest out and asking for a sammich"
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^been guilty of that, but coming from someone who got out of what I thought was the friend zone, it really is kinda ridiculous how we look at it and how things that we do that are "nice" such as listening to her feelings etc suddenly become "wrong" or no the thing to do if you want to be with her in a non platonic way. I mean what are we expecting, that becoming an ass will suddenly make her want to be with us, I just say give it time OP and just be straight and upfront with it