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Originally Posted by Noir
Dude, the only thing you're an expert of is making women feel awkward. Seriously. I read your so-called words of wisdom and "awkward" is the only outcome I can foresee resulting from any and ALL of your advises; for any woman.
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Lol. It's so much easier to tell someone to move on when you're not in their position. But when the same situation happens to you where a woman leads you on by consistently sending "i miss you" text and kisses you after a date. And then later go MIA on you, you'd wish she give you a reason why.
No shit it'll be awkward when discussions about feelings are put on the table, it's reality. You don't think that what she did bothers her over time? (which it did apparently) You think she can go on pretending that nothing happened? You don't think she wishes that he would asks her what really happened? (which she does apparently since she's the one that text him back about the situation) Girls think more than guys do and they tend to over think.
I'm sure the OP is not a kid anymore and can maturely go up to her or call her and asks her what happened the other night (which in fact he did). OP already stated he's not the one night stand guy, and people already started labeling him with wanting consistent vag.
You speak as if you can easily diminish a feeling a girl made you feel. Easier said than done when you're the one giving advice. Lose the man ego and go deal with a problem like a grown up. You don't fuck with someone's feelings and call it a night, if that's the person you are, I feel sorry for you.
EDIT - Everyone's opinion is different, what you see, foresee, whatever, may not be what everyone thinks. When sharing advice or opinions, there is no right or wrong. Do you see me going around posting about other people's advice being bad or wrong? You don't like it, don't read it. Between a girl and a guy, I think it goes from interest, dating, bf/gf, commitment, etc. etc. Apparently they are dating and she's already giving him signs that she's ready for bf/gf. If OP misunderstood those signs, it would be kind of her to explain to him why (which she did).
I rest my case.