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Originally Posted by mr_chin

Lol. It's so much easier to tell someone to move on when you're not in their position. But when the same situation happens to you where a woman leads you on by consistently sending "i miss you" text and kisses you after a date. And then later go MIA on you, you'd wish she give you a reason why.

No shit it'll be awkward when discussions about feelings are put on the table, it's reality. You don't think that what she did bothers her over time? (which it did apparently) You think she can go on pretending that nothing happened? You don't think she wishes that he would asks her what really happened? (which she does apparently since she's the one that text him back about the situation) Girls think more than guys do and they tend to over think.

I'm sure the OP is not a kid anymore and can maturely go up to her or call her and asks her what happened the other night (which in fact he did). OP already stated he's not the one night stand guy, and people already started labeling him with wanting consistent vag.

You speak as if you can easily diminish a feeling a girl made you feel. Easier said than done when you're the one giving advice. Lose the man ego and go deal with a problem like a grown up. You don't fuck with someone's feelings and call it a night, if that's the person you are, I feel sorry for you.

EDIT - Everyone's opinion is different, what you see, foresee, whatever, may not be what everyone thinks. When sharing advice or opinions, there is no right or wrong. Do you see me going around posting about other people's advice being bad or wrong? You don't like it, don't read it. Between a girl and a guy, I think it goes from interest, dating, bf/gf, commitment, etc. etc. Apparently they are dating and she's already giving him signs that she's ready for bf/gf. If OP misunderstood those signs, it would be kind of her to explain to him why (which she did).

I rest my case.

You rest your case?


And why feel sorry for me? If I fuck with someone's feelings... you're better off feeling sorry for the other party.


And if anything, there's nothing more mature than one who can spare the other party the awkwardness, or embarrassment. Honestly, the fact that you need everything spelled out to you, you need everything explained to you verbatim, despite what all the body language et al is already communicating to you and you still need to hear the words is rather kiddish.


Like someone already said, most of the time, the reason why people will not say "these" kind of things out in the open and blunt is to spare your feelings. Because most people have courtesy; and most people have the common sense to get a hint.

MOST PEOPLE.

What kind of category do you fit under if you do not possess any of the above?