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Originally Posted by Noir
You rest your case?
And why feel sorry for me? If I fuck with someone's feelings... you're better off feeling sorry for the other party.
And if anything, there's nothing more mature than one who can spare the other party the awkwardness, or embarrassment. Honestly, the fact that you need everything spelled out to you, you need everything explained to you verbatim, despite what all the body language et al is already communicating to you and you still need to hear the words is rather kiddish.
Like someone already said, most of the time, the reason why people will not say "these" kind of things out in the open and blunt is to spare your feelings. Because most people have courtesy; and most people have the common sense to get a hint.
MOST PEOPLE. 
What kind of category do you fit under if you do not possess any of the above? |
The fuck are you talking about? Can we speak human language here please? You might as well stab someone in the guts and leave them there to die, and tell them, "I'll be nice and courteous to leave you here wondering why I didn't just kill you."
How about spare someone's feelings by not leading them on at all? If you're so nice in the first place, why lead someone on and leave them there to wonder what the fuck happened later? I think making up some bullshit excuse would be more courteous than just leaving without a word.
Awkward and embarrassment? You better bet there will be when someone do these shit to me.
Believe me, the next time a girl does exactly what the girl did to the OP, she'll want to give you an explanation. It's a human thing to do. If she doesn't, then congratulations, you've met your soul mate.
I fit in the category where I am responsible for my words and actions. I know which one you fit under, the one with no feelings. The one where someone can step on your shoe, spit on them and walk away with a simple nod. You don't need it spelled out, he nodded right?
But I really hope you're the type that don't mind having your feelings fucked and not the ones that fuck with other people's feelings and expect them to feel they way you do.
PS - You're right, I wouldn't feel sorry for you, I would feel sorry for your parents who raised you like that. (speaking if's here)