[Yuffa]

O and I want to mention that "Pretend to not give a crap" is the worse solution. You obviously do give a crap because otherwise you wouldn't still be with her.

Giving her the cold shoulder just escalates whatever negative thought that is in her head and makes the situation worse. Patience is the key here. Give her a timeline as to when you want to talk this out. (IE I know you are upset so I will give you some space. Can we talk about this tomorrow after work?)

If problems and issues continued to be ignored weeks in time and get brushed off into a pile, eventually the solution will be loving each other less and less so you will numb yourself from ever giving a crap.

And then what happens next will be inevitable.....=\