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Originally Posted by Noir
bro, I don't think reacting to a disagreement/argument with silence is necessarily what the bad thing is here.
I think what the bad thing is here is the quality that some people like to hang onto grudges for an unreasonably lengthy amount of time; like 4 months long or 6 years long.
(unless it's something big that you've done something that would change how others will look at you forever, that length of grudge holding is just wayyyyyyy beyond reasonable IMO).
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I make no excuses. I don't understand it either.
Only thing I can add is that it seems to get easier, the non-communication, as time goes on. Yea, it's messed up.
I don't wish this bad habit upon anybody.