[El Bastardo]

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I would really appreciate some insight on my relationship. I consider my relationship to be a pretty serious one. Lately things havent been so hot and we constantly get into fights. Its always about the same thing. Him with my anger and me with him not contributing to our relationship. The two problems have yet to be solved. Im always frustrated with him not doing anything about it and he doesnt offer to do anything about it. But anyways, we decided to break up although we both know we love each other and dont want to part but we both have a bit of growing up to do. We feel like we are better off just living independently because we seem to be just tolerating each other at the moment. In the past i always cut my connections with my exs but i really dont want to do that with him and i dont know how i can be just friends. We both agree that we will just end up being with each other again. We would both like to get back together in the future after we get our shit together but who knows what the future will hold? What if he finds someone else? Perhaps we are blinded by love but im really stuck on what to do after we "break up". Move on or what?

Any advice or criticism would be greatly appreciated.