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Sounds like you guys are not made for each other unless one of you decides to change.
Sounds like you guys love each other because there is no other options.
Why not just have an open relationship with this man? Declare your status as "seeing each other" or "dating" and look for other people who might suit your lifestyle and expectations better.
You're looking for someone who's willing to contribute to the relationship, and he's looking for someone who's not expect as much out of a relationship, so it's clear that you both have different view and standards when it comes to boyfriend/girlfriend.
Or leave it as it is for now, and one day you guys will know how much you need each other. Most people never realize what they had until it's gone. When they don't, it means it was never there in the first place.
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