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^What they said.
Relationships. A game for 2. Not for 1. Both of you need to take a step back and think about what needs to be done for each other and yourselves. Breaking up isn't the solution. I would never break up or a "break" because my philosophy is that it creates an imprint in your mind. Imagine all the wrongs and disagreements in the past, and a "break" will just add to it and leaves a sour feeling. Thats just in my opinion but others may think otherwise.
My girlfriend is the same. Not really contributing much or never really thinking about what to do for me. I would then give some suggestions like "hey how about you come to find me after work" or "hey I downloaded a movie, how about you come over to my house tonight". Pretty much you work around it and make sure you tell each other what you really feel and want. Doesn't matter if the other person gets angry because the main point is getting stuff off your chest because that's what you're feeling.
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