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Originally Posted by z3german
gf wants to find another female for some sexy times, but is willing to do a triad relationship for the right girl.
To be clear we are not swingers, and this is not polygamy. It would be categorized under poly amorous and triad relationship.
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Originally Posted by z3german
Might have found the perfect girl! Talked about the girl with my girl and i could tell she was into her!
Its all up to the other girl now, shes interested but has a SO that she needs to ask if its okay.
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I'm not quite following, please clarify something.
Are you interested in a one time threesome, a 'friend' for routine threesomes, or a true relationship shared between three people such is polyamory?
Since the prospective girl has a SO, the situation is quite complicated; a successful polyamorous relationship would likely require the boundaries be extended to include the prospective girl's SO, as well; if the prospective girl and her SO do not have prior experience with open relationships, permission for a threesome would likely come with the caveat that the arrangement goes both ways (Girl, SO, and your GF can have a threesome). A foursome might be a better option with the prospective girl, if you're okay with your gf having sex with another male. If you're not, I would look for a single girl, personally.
Sometimes jealousy issues don't actually arise until the threesome begins, often actually. Although your GF sounds chill, be prepared for the possibility, and have a very open dialogue during and after.
I enjoy threesomes, they're certainly not my favourite arrangement. If you want to have amazing sex with two girls, you better be in great shape, because its a lot of work. Changing positions is more involved too, it's not a quick, simple act like one-on-one.
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Originally Posted by guddagudd
jesus... this is the kind of stuff men dare only dream about
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Why? I've not met many girls who would not be interested in a threesome. You just need to ask, and not phrase it in a creepy way.