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Old 02-17-2013, 06:30 PM   #17
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Sound like you got a little insecure of the relationship and tried to secured it too fast by telling her what's good and bad (honesty, communication, etc.)

I think an important lesson to learn here is, don't declare anything so early or quickly (title, ways of a relationship, etc.) but at the same time, that doesn't mean you should hide your intentions.

OP, I think you played everything out correctly except telling her what you expect of a relationship. Going in with high expectations, or should I say, many expectations, can scare someone away. Sometimes it's better to show them your expectations then to tell them. Learn this from the last girl I tried to hit her.
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