okay, so, me and my gf have sex all the time, its great sex as is, but i'm looking for ways to make it "better". was wondering if any other guys or girls out here could share what they do to "take it up a notch". (ex: v-day, end of night, to top it all off when she went to take her contacts out in the bathroom and i was laying in her bed, she came into the room with a whip cream bikini and a bottle of chocolate syrup)
im not talking about "put it in her butt" or anything like that...
im saying this from my point of view, which is that im a guy, if im having sex with a girl whos not a beast...ill blow a load..just like 99% of the people here would.
but to get her off...it takes a LOT, lots of foreplay, make sex last as long as possible, and make it as fun as possible. shes honestly the hardest girl to get off ive ever dated.
so im asking for some other ideas to make it more fun. right now it just seems like everything is almost monotonous. foreplay, sex, cuddle etc. sure each time is different, but it just doesnt seem to have that "it factor" to make it stand out from every other time kinda thing.
so yeah, anyone have any tips on how to spice it up or make it better? anything from toys you find work well for you, to positions, locations (public, cars, kitchens, you name it we've done it, but theres always room for improvement).
if you can understand what im trying to say, id love to hear some tips/suggestions
