Whenever we get into an argument about something, I won't say anything hurtful to her, ie. calling her a bitch/cunt/asshole...etc.
there's many other words and ways i can say it to basically say the same thing, but not as hurtful. At the end when it's starting to cool down (arguments only last 2-5 minutes with us) ill usually make her smile.
Ex. Me - "your such a tard...

"
Her - "me?? Your the tard...."
Me - "yeah...maybe...but I'm your tard

"
Saying it as playful as I can to make her smile. Just an easy way for us to both realize we're bickering about something stupid and its now in the past.
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