[Ulic Qel-Droma]

hell you might even thank her later on in your life. cuz no real man is dumb enough to make the same mistake twice (ok three times).

you're obviously a doormat and very beta (not to attack you, every man has to go through this lesson, some learn real fast, some never learn). serving a woman like you do does not make them appreciate or like you more.

think of it this way. you will hesitate twice next time you want to do something nice for a girl for the sake of being nice and wanting to show affection.

this current ex is nothing but a step in a flight of stairs to the alpha mindset. after enough steps, you'll know what to do and what not to do. it's not hard. you don't need explanations and reasons.

now you have a peek through the crack of a doorway... on the other side is the mentality of the reasons/purpose behind the "asshole" alpha.


one way of looking at it is like this:
have you ever met a GUY that wants to be your friend so badly, or looks up to you, that everything you say or do, is praised? they're always looking out for you, and praising you and doing shit for you? trying to suck up? you can never say anything wrong, and when you do, they carefully work their way around with words so nothing is offensive and everything seems sugar coated and all nice and shit?

it gets annoying and you start looking down on the guy. it sounds mean but... in your mind you start treating him like the dog he is. it's like having a yes-man follow you around everywhere.

it's the exact same thing when you're with a girl. don't be a dog. or you'll get treated like one. no one likes yes-men.



affection is like sex. if you give too much, it becomes not so special, and becomes unappreciated.
you give enough so it's still special.

and you god damn make sure whenever you give it, it's appreciated, or you start cutting back on it.

it's not a game. that's just the way it is. if you hate it cuz you think it's a game, then you fail at the game of living life.