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Originally Posted by yogenfruz
My problem is, I don't want to be with her. When she left, I went into a bit of a rough phase; I stopped going to classes, or talking to people. I drank for about 2 weeks and just put on a smile whenever I was around people. I was finally starting to feel better when April rolled around; semester ending, summer starting, nice weather, everything was looking up. Then this.
I'll be the first to admit, sleeping with her was a mistake, and I regretted it the next day, as I just had that gut feeling that this would happen. And now, I feel like she's expecting me to want to stay together either over the summer, or when we get back to school, get back together. I told her that "I don't think I can be in a relationship for a long time after what happened." Hence why she came up with the "wait the summer" plan.
I just know I won't want to stay together during the summer, or get back together after the summer. But I'm not sure how to say it besides just saying it. It kills me though, because I can't stand being the reason someone is upset, and I cave to make people happy.
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Then don't.
Just say, "no".
You know what you need to do. You said it yourself. Just say it to her.
You have 2 choices: tell her the truth, or spend the whole relationship NOT breaking up with her because you feel bad.
There needs to be some level of selfishness in a relationship....this is YOUR time.