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Originally Posted by Culture_Vulture
Just how important it is to be having "great sex" regularly in a long term relationship as opposed to just regular sex on a regular basis?
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This answer will be different for everyone. Sex is way up there on the priority list for some, and for others, the contrary.
For me, it's somewhere in the middle, and the girl I'm dating fits the bill pretty well. We have our regular sex, but now and then, for whatever reason, she turns into a freak in bed. And that's enough for me.
If sex is important for you, you'll want to bring this up with the girl down the road. Maybe she's just shy because it's a new relationship?
And, trust me on this one, don't kid yourself about it. If you need hot sex, but you pretend you don't, it'll be like dating a vegetarian, and telling her you're also a vegetarian. You're having "new relationship syndrome" right now, and if you keep depriving yourself of your needs, you WILL get bored down the road. And fast. That's just how our brains are hardwired.
But for now... I'd say try some new moves. Push the envelope a bit. Maybe she hasn't done much, and will find something she likes.
Good luck, sir. Happy nailing.
