[miss_crayon]

In regards on how to prepare yourself for a divorce..the only thing I can say is build communication with your parents. Even if your parents cant stand conversing with one another..remind them this is not just about them..it's your family as a whole. You guys need to make a plan as to where the direction of this family will operate in the future in order to have it a successful one. Granted, there might be some flaws or changes in the beginning but that's understandable as this is an adjustment for everyone involved. You need to constantly talk on how to make things work for your dad, your mom, your siblings (if you have any) and you. Talking about your feelings does not make you any less of a man.

Divorce isn't an easy thing but it doesn't have to be a terrible process either. Understand that at the end of the day...your parents LOVE their children and they are only doing what's best for their family. They might not love each other anymore but the love they have for you is unconditional and forever.