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Anyone experienced "giving out but not recieving appreciation" before?
Not sure what a good title of this thread should be but this is what the issue is about so i named it like that
Long story short, met this girl a while ago and I got her some gifts from my vacation and one of the gifts was a really nice silk scarf (not expensive and not sold in Vancouver or at least I never saw it before) and others were just local goodies (candy and small gifts).
When i got back, I texted her and said that I got her something and that we should meet up for dinner so I can give it to her. She was happy and we agreed on a time for dinner.
So dinner went well and I gave her the scarf and she said "oh its pretty" and after dinner I drove her home. (keep in mind that there were no awkward situations at the dinner also hence I say it went "well" and we had lots to talk about.)
The thing is after that dinner and my ride for her home, she never texted me saying anything regarding the "appreciation" about the gifts (scarf etc) i got her. Nothing in the lines of "thanks again for the gifts" etc.
what I am choked is that, no matter if you like the gifts are not, shouldn't you at least show some respect and appreciation?
As of now, its been 3 weeks and she hasn't facebook messaged, text nor called me regarding how I am doing or asking me "whats up" etc (so basically no news and contact from her)
Regardless if I treat her as a friend or a future girlfriend, I would think that If you give something to someone, they would most likely show some sort of appreciation to you (at least everyone i have given gifts to did that)
Anyone else experienced this before where you gave out but received no appreciation for it?
Last edited by tru_blue; 04-17-2013 at 12:48 AM.
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