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Originally Posted by PJ
This answer will be different for everyone. Sex is way up there on the priority list for some, and for others, the contrary.
For me, it's somewhere in the middle, and the girl I'm dating fits the bill pretty well. We have our regular sex, but now and then, for whatever reason, she turns into a freak in bed. And that's enough for me.
If sex is important for you, you'll want to bring this up with the girl down the road. Maybe she's just shy because it's a new relationship?
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yup, for me...i dont care if i have sex once a week or 5 times, just being with my gf is enough. i made a thread a bit ago about spicing our sex lives up. we both walked into it kinda blind not knowing what to expect and turns out it worked out quite well.
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Originally Posted by dinosaur
This man speaks the truth.
The key to have good sex is to fuck with no reservations that first time you fuck a new partner.
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for me i cant do that, and probably for a lot of others as well. when you see me in person, i can be very extroverted, but when it comes to lights out and in the sheets, i get shy...to many things run through my mind that i just cant control....things like "what if she doesn't have an orgasm", "what if she thinks i suck", "what if i cant last long enough for her" etc etc. and for those reasons i usually take the first several times slow and keep it more reserved.
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Originally Posted by SoNaRWaVe
just keep having sex and maybe she will get better and more comfortable with you to be open and talk about it. i think communication is key but once you 2 get on the same page, it just gets better.
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^^thats the best advice in my books, get comfortable, talk, slowly push the boundaries. if i really liked a girl, and finally had a chance to get her in my bed, and i went 100% and started bringing out the cuffs and blindfolds and foods/syrups..if she isn't comfortable with it...that'll probably be the last time i see her naked. id rather make a foundation and work my way up from there.
but thats just me.